Global Travel
What Tiger Sharks Taught Me About Facing Fear
Floating cageless in the open ocean with 20 sharks taught me something that 19 years of sobriety already knew: you don't have to face your fears alone.
Sober Companion
Why Adventure-Based Recovery Works
Sitting in a circle talking about your feelings has its place. But there's something that happens when you push your body to its edge in nature that no therapy room can replicate.
Mental Wellness
Who Are You When Recovery Isn't the Main Plot
After years sober, the recovery story starts to fade. What fills the space when sobriety stops being your whole identity?
Global Travel
Standing on Living Earth: Hiking Kilauea Volcano in Hawaii
The Big Island is still growing. Standing at the edge of Kilauea at night, lava glowing below and stars overhead, reminded me how sobriety lets you actually feel the world.
Mental Wellness
The Compound Effect of Just Showing Up
The big moments in sobriety aren't the dramatic ones. They're the quiet, compounding result of showing up again and again when nobody's watching.
Global Travel
When Showing Up Leads to Swimming with Pilot Whales
Three days ago I was in Bali. Today I'm floating off the Big Island of Hawaii with twenty pilot whales gliding past me. None of this happens without sobriety.
Sober Companion
What a Sober Companion Actually Does and Why It Matters
A sober companion isn't just someone who tags along on trips. Here's what the work actually looks like and why it changes lives.
Mental Wellness
Dry vs Sober: Why Removing the Substance Isn't Enough
Putting down the drink or drug doesn't mean you're free. Here's the honest difference between being dry and actually recovering.
Sober Companion
Hiring a Sober Companion for a Family Member: What You Should Know
When someone you love is struggling, hiring a sober companion can feel like the right move. Here's how to know if it is, and what to look for before writing a check.
Global Travel
Whale Sharks in Isla Mujeres: The Leap That Changed Everything
I jumped into the open ocean off Isla Mujeres with yellow fins and zero experience. What happened next shaped the rest of my life.
Mental Wellness
How Sobriety Changed My Relationship With Fear
Fear kept me small for years. Sobriety didn't remove it, but it changed everything about how I move through it.
Global Travel
Why Bali Became My Sober Home Base
Bali didn't just become a place I lived. It became a mirror. Here's what 19 years sober and a life on the road taught me about coming home to yourself.
Mental Wellness
Finding Freedom in Sobriety Without Losing Your Edge
Think sobriety means playing it safe? I've swum with whales, hit 50+ countries, and found my edge got sharper without drink or drug.
Sober Companion
How to Travel Internationally in Early Sobriety
International travel in early recovery sounds risky. It doesn't have to be. Here's how to navigate airports, foreign cultures, and your own mind while staying grounded.
Sober Companion
What to Expect on a Sober Companion Trip
You've decided to invest in a sober companion trip. Now what? Here's what the experience actually looks like from day one to the final goodbye.
Global Travel
Discover the Hidden Benefits of Sober Travel for Deeper Connections and Fun
Travel often brings to mind images of lively parties, clinking glasses, and late-night celebrations. Many people believe that without alcohol, travel loses its excitement. So the question I always hear becomes, 'Is sober travel fun?'
Sober Companion
Sober Companion vs. Sober Coach vs. Sponsor: What's the Difference?
People throw these terms around interchangeably, but they're not the same thing. Here's what actually separates a sober companion, a sober coach, and a sponsor.
Global Travel
Top Destinations for Sober and Drug-Free Travelers Seeking Adventure
Finding yourself alcohol/drug free? Awesome! Traveling without alcohol or drugs can be a refreshing way to explore the world with clarity and purpose, but it can also be challenging to know which is the best spot.
Global Travel
How to Stay Sober While Traveling: Tips for Alcohol-Free Holiday Adventures
The holiday season often stirs up a variety of emotions. For those dedicated to sobriety, it can feel like navigating a tightrope lined with spiked eggnog and champagne toasts. This guide will help serve as your travel companion.
Global Travel
The Art of Traveling Sober
It's funny, I've been traveling solo and sober for over a decade now, and I realize as I created this page and started blogging, that I sort of take that for granted. For a sober travel blogging website, I think it's safe to say I'm doing a poor job there. So, let's fix that now.
Mental Wellness
Navigating Life's Good and Bad: Life is in Session
It's important to note, and I feel called to share for whoever is out there who may need to hear it, that social media photos and videos are always people's highlights. Rarely do they offer the full story or picture.
Mental Wellness
To Compare Is To Despair: You vs. You, Our Only Competition
I've often found myself questioning why I, at times, feel uncomfortable, unsettled, or even frustrated by others' success around me. Did they do anything to me? No. Then why the uncomfortable feeling?
Mental Wellness
A Balanced Life: Is it Possible?
One question I get asked a lot is 'How do you have energy for all this? All your travels?' The answer lives in understanding what balance actually means for you specifically.
Global Travel
Travel Planning: To Plan or Not to Plan
To Plan or Not to Plan? That is the Question. We all know someone that is super detail-oriented and has their entire trip planned before they even get on the plane. Whatever works for you, there isn't necessarily a 'right' way.
Global Travel
Travel and Money: How Can I Travel and Not Go Broke?
One of the most common questions when planning any trip is 'How can I afford to travel?'. The key is to find a balance that works for you and maximize your opportunities.
Mental Wellness
I AM: Affirmations and The Power of The Mind
Selfish. Narcissistic. Spoiled. Entitled. Do you ever find yourself or others labeling you with names like these? What I tell myself is what I am, what I become.
Global Travel
Is it Safe to Dive with Tiger Sharks?
Have you ever found yourself snorkeling, diving, or swimming in the ocean where you look around feeling like something is watching you? Since Jaws debuted in 1975, many of us have been captivated with the presence of sharks.
Global Travel
Tips and Tricks for Traveling: How Do I Get Started and Why Do I Want to?
Getting started can feel like you're looking up at a large mountain. A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. Fear not my friends, the view is always best after the climb.
Guest Blogs
Sober Vacation Travel Tips
Maureen Coulter of the sober travel blog The Temperate Traveler offers some advice for folks who are interested in sober vacation tips, whether you are in recovery, sober-curious or just not a fan of alcohol.